When Janet moved into Sandstone Court in 2024, life looked very different. Having relocated from South Africa to be closer to her family after a dementia diagnosis, she initially found herself isolated in her flat, relying on external carers and sticking to a routine of TV and cigarettes.
The challenge was helping Janet rediscover her social side. She had always been a people person, but dementia and unfamiliar surroundings made it hard for her to join in. Slowly, the care team worked with Janet to find activities she loved. She revealed her past as a geographical drawer and gardener, sparking her involvement in the weekly arts and crafts group and the Gardening Club. Coffee mornings soon became another highlight, giving her the chance to laugh and chat with new friends.
Today, Janet is thriving. She no longer needs carers to bring her to activities, she heads down independently, confident and eager to join in. She’s even given up smoking, swapping cigarettes for coffee in the bistro, where her daughter-in-law has set up an account so she can treat herself whenever she likes.
Most importantly, Janet now sees the care team not as carers, but as friends. She said: “I enjoy the social activities. My favourite is the gardening club and the arts and crafts.”
Her story shows how the right support, patience, and a focus on personal interests can transform isolation into community, and routine into joy.
